masturbate-a-thon

Hey got nothing planned for the weekend and live in the SF area why not attend the Masturbate-a-thon competition, link

Although most men and women today are aware that masturbation isn't a "degrading act," many are still constrained by the notion that it's a selfish, immature activity or a second-rate substitute for partner sex. We live in a society in which sexual expression has always been legislated and restricted and the pursuit of pure pleasure is frequently condemned as selfish and childish. A lot of people who consider themselves free of sexual hang-ups have simply rewritten the equation "sex is only good if it involves procreation" to "sex is only good if it involves two loving people." The fact that masturbation is a pleasurable end in itself gets short shrift in mainstream sex manuals, which focus on masturbation as a useful tool in the building of a better sex life with one's partner. The Masturbate-a-thon is dedicated to honoring masturbation as an excellent way to have sex while also raising money for non-profits.

why not try out for the :

Longest Squirt Distance New!
An area of the porn palace will be set up so that participants can compete for longest squirting/ejaculation distance. This will be a mixed gender event and whoever goes the fluid distance wins!

Longest Time Masturbating
How long can people masturbate? Well the current record is over 8 hours. Bend your gender expectations; that participant was 100% male. Winners will be awarded in as many gender categories as are appropriate.

Most Orgasms
Multiple orgasms aren't just for chicks. The Masturbate-a-thon record for most male orgasms is 6! Of course, women are a little ahead in this game with a record of 49 orgasm in a single masturbate-a-thon event. Wow! Men, women and any other declared gender category will compete for their own multi-orgasmic titles.

Tag Team Fun
This is a tag team race like you have never seen. The no-touching-others rule is suspended while team tag each other for a place change in the masturbation arena.

Last years winners
Time Records:
Female: 6 h, 30 min (Norine Dworkin, San Francisco, 2004)
Male: 8 h, 30 min (San Francisco, 2006)
Trans/Genderqueer: Yet to be set!
Most Orgasms:
Female: 49 (London, 2006)
Male: 6 (London, 2006)
Trans/Genderqueer: Yet to be set!

Global warming

Its made me reflect on our summers here in Australia, it's often joked I'm part lizard and that if the weather isn't at a certain temperature I cease to function. Damn I hate the cold, I'm lucky in the fact we don't get the snow and blizzards but to an Aussie 15 degrees is Bloody cold, I'm sitting here it is 9 am and overcast and sky is murky cold grey, the heater is humming away in the background.I can see my G-strings on the line which was freshly hung out this morning developing a steam in the cold air.




I'm already missing summer and winter hasn't even fully hit us yet. It's funny what happens in the seasonal changes, subs seem to find more clothing, subs wonder on ways to stay warm while 'playing' I fondly remember Saratoga's post on his efforts to find suitable warm/robust clothing..Dommes duck for cover with flesh firmly encased..statistics show that online shopping increasing winter for sexy or kinky wardrobe articles,and not surprisingly underwear sales increase in summer as flesh comes out to play....as you can see in miss Catwoman post she is planning on a wicked looking corset for summer
she is definetly adding to global warming this year.



Winter for me does hold one ray of sunshine..YAY whooohoooo...Leather where are you, it's time to come out and play...*insert cheesey cheap porno flick music and disclaimer that not all dominas like fetish wear please do not push your maybe potential Domme into your cardboard cutout fantasies, end rant...no more naked for this little, big girl its leather season, the welts and marks, my oz wears with pride are more easily hidden, its not winter, I want it renamed Leather fetish time, Can't you see me stamping my leather thigh high leather clad foot goddess nature, more of a catchy phrase don't you think, and much more appeal to us leather wearing kinksters. LOL



I've decided in an effort to dust off the winter blues, todays the day I'll dust of the leathers....polish the PVC to a brilliant gleem... and maybe air out the latex.







To my friends in the warmer part of the blogshere enjoy your sunshine (I'm still jealous)
but for now this lizard will cope in leathers and crank up the heat her way... Now what would look and feel better with my new boots......Hmmmm wonder if that corset with the flame red is still on ebay...owwww and sexybay had those PVC pants again....ohhh and where did Mistress160 get that leather set from she mentioned in her post

it's human nature

quick one tonight, no to time to post but I found the below interesting, roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse. Damn am glad I'm not getting that !!!!!

1. The roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse. lovemaking session lasts around 15 minutes: roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse.

2. Humans aren't the only horny members of the animal kingdom doing it just for fun. Dolphins and a type of chimpanzee called the bonobo have also been observed engaging in sexual activity when they are not in their natural reproductive cycles.

3. While Viagra has made erectile dysfunction (affecting 10 to 12 percent of men) a household phrase, the opposite problem -- premature ejaculation -- is more common (affecting 24 to 27 percent of men). The U.S. Food and Drug Administration is currently reviewing a drug called dapoxetine as a cure for this problem.

4. Crank up that thermostat... orgasms may be more intense in warmer conditions. The degree of vasocongestion, reddening or darkeing of the skin known as the "sex flush," is both more common in warmer temperatures and an indication of how intense an orgasm may be.

5. If a woman experiences orgasm during sex, she is more likely to become pregnant, since orgasmic spasms in pelvic muscles help move sperm up the vaginal canal to the uterus.

6. Homosexuality is not unique to humans. Many species have been observed engaging in homosexual activity, and in fact male bats have the highest rate of homosexuality of all mammals.

7. On any given day 400,000,000 people around the world -- 1 in 17 of us -- will have sexual intercourse. Broken down further, 4,000 people are having sex at any given time.

Photo source Collar N cuffs

8. Sex cures headaches. Endorphins released into our bloodstream when we have sex not only give us pleasure but also act as painkillers. Useful information to whip out the next time your partner uses a headache as a reason to say no.

9. Many elderly can and do have frequent sex. At age 70, 73% of males are still potent, and 30% of women 80 or older have still have sex.10. 70% of women would rather eat chocolate than have sex.

Sources: The Kinsey Report, Wikipedia, American Urology Association

Follow on to my last post

it seems the courier mail also ran this article, the wording was a little changed and they had added an extra paragraph to the bottom which appealed to my reasoning behind my site

it reads

“There's a lot to be said for accepting who you are.”
At the other end of the spectrum – least happy – were men who reported being attracted to men but had never acted on their desire and didn't regard themselves as gay.
Researchers said the study helps break down the reigning stereotype that people into bondage and discipline were damaged as children and were therefore “dysfunctional”.
“We really found that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex,” Dr Richters said.
“They've just got a broader and more unusual sexual repertoire than most.”


the whole article

BONDAGE and discipline may actually make men happier, according to the first national survey of Australians' fetish habits.
The new sex study has revealed that 2 per cent of Australian men and 1.4 per cent of women admit to enjoying dominance, submission and sadomasochism-type sex in the past year.
But researchers involved in the phone survey of 20,000 people say they expect many more Australians to be engaging in the practice but unwilling to label it BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination and submission).
“There will definitely be more men and women who have sexual tastes in this direction but won't call it this,” said Dr Juliet Richters, of the University of New South Wales.
“They might not like sex magazines but they just happen to like being tied up and spanked as part of foreplay.
“Ask them if they're into BDSM they'll say 'Yuck, no'.”
The survey results, to be presented at the World Association of Sexual Health congress in Sydney this week, give the first snapshot of Australians involved in bondage behaviour.
These fetishes were most common among gay, lesbian and bisexual people and heterosexuals who are “bi-interested”, said Dr Richters, the lead researcher.
In women, BDSM was most popular among under 20-year-olds and those who had a partner they didn't live with. There were no age or relationship trends in men, she said.
People who engaged in the habit were more likely to be sexually adventurous in other ways, like trying anal sex and phone sex, looking at internet pornography or using sex toys.
“These are people for whom sex is a hobby,” Dr Richters said.
They were no more likely to have suffered sexual difficulties, sexual abuse or coercion or anxiety than other Australians.
In fact, says Dr Richters, men into BDSM scored significantly better on a scale of psychological wellbeing than other men.
“This seems to imply that these men are actually happier as a result of their behaviour, though we're not sure why,” she said.
“It might just be that they're more in harmony with themselves because they're into something unusual and are comfortable with that.
“There's a lot to be said for accepting who you are.”
At the other end of the spectrum – least happy – were men who reported being attracted to men but had never acted on their desire and didn't regard themselves as gay.
Researchers said the study helps break down the reigning stereotype that people into bondage and discipline were damaged as children and were therefore “dysfunctional”.
“We really found that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex,” Dr Richters said.
“They've just got a broader and more unusual sexual repertoire than most.”

Kinky? you can't beat it.

Bondage and discipline may actually make men happier, according to the first national survey of Australians' fetish habits.
The new sex study has revealed that two per cent of Australian men and 1.4 per cent of women admit to enjoying dominance, submission and sadomasochism-type sex in the past year.
But researchers involved in the phone survey of 20,000 people say they expect many more Australians to be engaging in the practice but unwilling to label it BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination and submission).
"There will definitely be more men and women who have sexual tastes in this direction but won't call it this," said Dr Juliet Richters, of the University of New South Wales.
"They might not like sex magazines but they just happen to like being tied up and spanked as part of foreplay.
"Ask them if they're into BDSM they'll say 'Yuck, no'."
The survey results, to be presented at the World Association of Sexual Health congress in Sydney this week, give the first snapshot of Australians involved in bondage behaviour.
These fetishes were most common among gay, lesbian and bisexual people and heterosexuals who are "bi-interested", said Dr Richters, the lead researcher.
In women, BDSM was most popular among under 20-year-olds and those who had a partner they didn't live with. There were no age or relationship trends in men, she said.
People who engaged in the habit were more likely to be sexually adventurous in other ways, like trying anal sex and phone sex, looking at internet pornography or using sex toys.
"These are people for whom sex is a hobby," Dr Richters said.
They were no more likely to have suffered sexual difficulties, sexual abuse or coercion or anxiety than other Australians.
In fact, says Dr Richters, men into BDSM scored significantly better on a scale of psychological wellbeing than other men.
"This seems to imply that these men are actually happier as a result of their behaviour, though we're not sure why," she said.
"It might just be that they're more in harmony with themselves because they're into something unusual and are comfortable with that.
"There's a lot to be said for accepting who you are."
At the other end of the spectrum - least happy - were men who reported being attracted to men but had never acted on their desire and didn't regard themselves as gay.
Researchers said the study helps break down the reigning stereotype that people into bondage and discipline were damaged as children and were therefore "dysfunctional".

"We really found that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex," Dr Richters said.
"They've just got a broader and more unusual sexual repertoire than most."
Australia's fetish behaviour
(according to a 2002 phone survey of 20,000 people)
- Two per cent of Australian men and 1.4 per cent of women admit to enjoying bondage, discipline, domination and submission (BDSM)
- BDSM is sexual activity that involves one partner being controlled by the other, usually including master-mistress role play, dress-ups and some element of pain
- Most BDSM participants are either gay, lesbian, bisexual or bi-interested
- Among women it is most common in those younger than 20 and least common over the age of 50
- People who engage in BDSM were more likely to have experienced anal sex, phone sex, group sex and cybersex, and have more sexual partners
- They report no more sexual difficulties than other people, and men involved in BDSM actually score better on a happiness scale
- The study concludes that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with "normal" sex

"We really found that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with 'normal' sex," Dr Richters said.
"They've just got a broader and more unusual sexual repertoire than most."
Australia's fetish behaviour
(according to a 2002 phone survey of 20,000 people)
- Two per cent of Australian men and 1.4 per cent of women admit to enjoying bondage, discipline, domination and submission (BDSM)
- BDSM is sexual activity that involves one partner being controlled by the other, usually including master-mistress role play, dress-ups and some element of pain
- Most BDSM participants are either gay, lesbian, bisexual or bi-interested
- Among women it is most common in those younger than 20 and least common over the age of 50
- People who engage in BDSM were more likely to have experienced anal sex, phone sex, group sex and cybersex, and have more sexual partners
- They report no more sexual difficulties than other people, and men involved in BDSM actually score better on a happiness scale
- The study concludes that BDSM is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with "normal" sex

taken directly from Australian SydneyHearld

freaky, Funny, Fetish, Finds, For Friday

***Disclaimer todays finds aren't all that fetish related, but I'm on someone else's computer as mines getting repaired (read bigger hard drive, more fetish related room LOL)

If ladies love stilettos and guys like stereo equipment… then everybody should love stereo stielettos, no?

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/speaker-stilettos/

Just think you could flog away to your favorite sounds, all the while never lossing your favorite beat.

Does your subbie miss you when you away

Does he miss your warm comfortable lap, make sure he never feels at a loss, get your lap reproduced today, yes some clever Korean subbie found a way to always have his Mistress near...Alas no marketing department will fund the idea..deep sigh !!! you'll have to use the floor.

An unintentionally hilarious product design or subversive moral commentary?

3M is selling these cute self-adhesive hooks in Asia. Just take a look at 3M's colorful, friendly animal pals with their handy hooks to hang your whips on, opps I mean stuff on.
3M's Sticky Bear is VERY Pleased to See You. And in case you're not sure what to do with such a big stiff hook, check out the serving suggestions on the top corner of each package: “follow me, hug me, kiss me.” (sorry I missed that bit in the pic, thats what the babblefish translation came out at LOL)

By the way, there's some innovative new technology in use here. The self-adhesive hooks feature 3M's new re-usable Command adhesive, which can keep sticking and sticking, again and again, and still come back for more. No, . Yeah right in who's world. No, I'm not making this up.

and because I'm feeling in a silly mood I have to share this one LOL

Get your new nose NOW, with DIY cosmetic surgery - only $7.50

Nose too wide? Embarrassed by your cavernous nostrils? Well, not any more with 'CoCo – Beautiful New Look of Nose'. Once again, I have sourced the Asian Internet suppliers, I have searched high and low to bring you another amazing scientific breakthrough from the shelves of their local supermarket.
Just leave this dainty clip tightly clamped on your nose at all times, and watch your face become more beautiful every day until you ultimately attain a 'Cleopatra Nose'. Your transformation could take place within days, or even months.

Don't worry about it clashing with the rest of your wardrobe, because it's now available in both pink and blue!

CoCo – Beautiful New Look of Nose is available at discerning stores in Japan, Korea and Taiwan from only $7.50. Why spend more on expensive plastic surgery and fancy doctors when you can just 'do it yourself'?
What are they smoking?Here's the back of the product package, we offer the translation (below) in the spirit of fun rather than strict accuracy.

WTF!!!!!

1. "Hey my friend! You have a wide nose.

Incidentally, I had a wide nose before,

but thanks to 'CoCo – Beautiful New Look of Nose',

my gargantuan proboscis is a thing of the past. Check it out!"

2. "Awesome! I can watch this convenient mirror

and see my nose slimming down even as I drive

my car. Oops, sorry about your kid, lolz!"

3. "Just a few more months of this torture,

and I'll I have a Cleopatra Nose like that

big-haired famous lady on TV. Or perhaps

the restricted blood flow will just make my nose

drop off. Problem solved either way!".

"By keeping this unobtrusive clip on while I sleep,

I can accelerate the nose-altering process! I know

I just need to persevere and my hitherto dreary life

will be utterly transformed by my new petite schnozzer.
Gosh, I really hope I get my new nose before I suffer further brain damage from the oxygen starvation caused by my self-induced sleep apnea."

Quick, bring out some science

According to the science department at Texyt Labs, this product isn't quite as ridiculous as it seems. Actually, your face or body shape CAN be gradually altered by this kind of steady pressure. Anybody who has had an ear (or other appendage) pierced has experienced this – if you don't keep the hole open, it'll slowly close up.
But I dread to imagine what kind of misshapen nose you could end up with, if this gimcrack $7.50 contraption goes awry. Not to mention the embarrassment of constantly looking like a synchronized swimmer who forgot to take her nose clip off.
Hey, but if you do want to take the plunge, don't forget: there's nothing to prevent you applying this to other body parts you want reshaped. *wicked grins*

Priceless

GRRRR don’t you just hate when things don’t work out !!!!I recently brought another set of ankle cuffs

I wanted a wider heavy duty leather cuffs with two D rings, large enough to pass through my favorite rope. Ok you say no problem, you can find them, yeah well I did eagle leather had them in stock .. that’s not the problem. LOL the problem is every time Oz wears them I break into fits of laughter.

They clink and clank every time he moves. The first time he wore them I was sitting at my desk waiting for him to come out of the shower. I had my back to him, he emerged. Then that clink and clank started. getting louder the nearer he approached. Still louder. ..tiled floor causing the clink and clank to echo in the darkness, then he started laughing and said “MissB, Tex is here Ma’am, ready and waiting, how may I be of service” I turned to see my favorite subbie, naked, wearing wrist cuffs, the afore mentioned ankle cuffs, My collar, and cowboy hat. That was it !! I was a goner, the laugher did me in. Oz had put on the cuffs only to discover they made to much noise as the D ring hit each other as he moved, the heavy metal on metal sound was some what distracting and loudly annoying. So to make me happy, as he knew I’d be disappointed he added the cowboy hat as the sound reminded him of spurs and being attached to his ankles he thought it was appropriate... he knew the laughter would lessen the blow...which it did.

Master card: $110
Dommes face: Highly amused
A subbie that cares: priceless

we have added a small ‘clamp’ to the cuffs to keep the rings together since, but they still bring that all knowing smile to my face every time I see them. Just goes to show to make your Domme happy you don’t always have to suffer for her ;)

Baby dolls and beautiful pictures

Wow time has gotten away from me this week, I've had the guests from hell staying with me.I should of made this post days ago, but having 'nilla guests with small children made it so hard to get near the computer let alone post LOL

I was recently a judge in Mistress160's baby doll competition in the forced feminization group on myDungeonspace.
I absolutely, thoroughly, enjoyed myself immensely during the competition, every moment was a pleasure for me. Don't know if I've mentioned on here before but forced Femme isn't one of stronger points, but it is something I have a growing interest in, but have had very little experience so the chance to judge the competition with my Fellow judges Mistress160 and Miss Alice was a great experience for me, as it was something on a larger scale I hadn't done before. The same was true for some of the contestants, most have never 'preformed' for a Mistress, that's why I valued the opportunity so much, the majority of the contestants (and members of the group) are unowned it gave then the opportunity to compete in fair and well managed competition, show what they have to offer, and an extra bonus of doing it for three Mistress' I think it was that idea that drew me in. Seeing how happy it made everyone was bonus I hadn't counted on, when i read chances blog entry (one of the prize winning contestants) he is owned by his lovely Dominate partner Destiny but still found things in the competition that he liked, I was actually quiet touched (by his entry) and had a tear running down my face by the end of the post. it made me proud to be apart of it.

I've linked to Mistress160's blog post so you see can the winners and their delightfully wicked and wonderful entries...and read the competitors and judges remarks, and which awards went to whom.
I would just like to add ALL the contestants are winners in my eyes.




From the judges
we had enormous fun judging the sexiest and most stylish outfits, we were impressed by the effort, creativity and elegance that went into all the submissions. I think there was a little bias by the judges for a slightly slutty look as well as nice bottoms, perhaps something to consider for future comps!".

From Mistress160
Thank you again to everyone who competed, to the Mistresses who so generously gave their time, and especially Miss Bonnie and Alice, who really enjoyed judging far too much!

From MissBonnie
Thank you Mistress160 and your right, I did enjoy myself WAY too much...can I do it again...PLEASE LOL

Sex 101 with MissB part 3

Oral sex tips



That's Bogus! Vibrator Addiction, Fact or Fiction?

Sex 101 with missB part 2

What and where is the P spot



what and where is the G spot




Search for the clitoris

Sex 101 with MissB part 1

it occurred to me not many people know the basics and search on net to find them, I recieved an Email today from a 16 year old male (maybe submissive) he had general questions he had trouble finding the answers too..I knew of these videos so I'm posting them for him, and others that need a way to find simple answers..Enjoy my sex 101 class,
now be good and don't make me get the cane *wink*


BDSM 101




Cock rings 101




Lubes 101





Harness 101



this ends todays lessons boys and girls...more soon

Funny, Freaky,or Fetish Finds For Friday

What do dresses, condoms, AIDS and charity have in common? A talented 35-year-old Brazilian artist (once Greenpeace activist) named Adriana Bertini. In an attempt to raise AIDS awareness and inspired by HIV-positive children she met while volunteering at an AIDS prevention group (GAPA), she has designed -over the span of ten years- dresses, skirts and suits made entirely of quality test rejected condoms.

What's her message? "Condoms must be basic like a pair of jeans and so necessary like a great love".

How is this environmentally friendly? Well, other than raising AIDS awareness, which is a pretty big thing, the condoms that are used to make the clothing are rejected condoms, which would otherwise be thrown into the trash or incinerated. Incineration would produce a huge amount of sulfur and trash obviously ends up in the landfills. But thanks to her partnership with preservative companies and her love for life, Bertini is able to express her talent and make a healthy and much needed ecological impact, all at the same time.

Cool Details


The maximum amount of condoms Adriana Bertini has used on a gown thus far are around 80 thousand. That's a lot of condoms! What was the gown she made? It was a wedding dress. Can you picture the bride wearing this? Bertini has also made around 200 sculptures, 80 pictures and 160 figurines.

Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on your fashion point of view, these bright colorful dresses and clothing items are not meant to be worn (except by the models), but to be seen. If you are interested, her artwork can be seen at the exhibition, "Dress Up Against AIDS: Condom Couture," now until March 11, 2007 at UCLA's Fowler Museum in LA. For more information visit the Fowler Museum website.

What Does The Future Hold?

Bertini doesn't plan to stop at clothing. She has 3 big ideas in the works. For starters she plans to begin a male collection of clothing, called "Medieval Art- Garments as body protection". She has already created a male bust series, sculptured with condoms.

She also wants to create a house, called "Venus' House" which, not surprisingly, would have furniture and people made out of condoms, but would also contain an educational archive on sex, its history and the data/statistics on sexually transmitted diseases. Her purpose: to endorses easier and more comfortable communication about sex within families and people as a whole.

Her third project, "Fashion Show Stars" is, in a way, a form of celebrity endorsement where she hopes to some day have famous people wear her artwork and say "I use it, don't you?" If you're famous and interested let her know. I'm sure she'd love it.

To see more of her creative green work, go to her website.