Sunday, June 25, 2006

SITE DOWN

Collarncuffs.com is down for repairs..should be back in a few days

Sunday, June 18, 2006

Yay I passed

The University of Blogging

Presents to
DommeBon

An Honorary
Bachelor of
Whingeing

Majoring in
Questionnaires
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Dr. GoQuiz.com
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Tuesday, June 13, 2006

Well another year has snuck up on me and its my Dads birthday. Every year while my Dad was alive (deceased 4 yrs) We would spend the long weekend before his birthday (queens birthday weekend) Doing something. that something normally consisted of something a little daring, stupid , wacky or just some simple thing that we have both wanted to do. Over the years we have parachuted, gone caving, climbed mountains, rode horses, hang glided, rode motor bikes, water skied and a hell off a lot more. It was our tradition to be honest with you it wasn't the activity, it was the time we spent planning it, the time together, and bond it brought. This year after all my traumas of the month I had forgotten... panic set in….. then I came to the conclusion it just has to be something that would of made him laugh (not that took a great deal) so I needed something that required no sitters for the kids and no assistantance of other s (oz had nightshift) The best I could up with on the short notice was a night time nudie trampoline jump. I might add this is not an activity he would of joined me in but he would of laughed till cried at the idea. so that’s it rain hail or shine...I’m off to bounce till I laugh. I LOVE YOU DAD and will never forget. HAPPY BIRTHDAY you old fossil (would have been his 59th birthday) Next year I have planned a hot air balloon trip for us all

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Why

Gawd where was my mind all the quiz's. I am sane... Really... LOL I apologize for that. I was going to remove them, but then I though why the sudden addiction. The need for answers?. The need to post ?, it dawned on me. I haven’t had the best of months, I was sick with a chest infection for three weeks. Went to have time out on the family farm to have my brother try to commit suicide from depression (not once but twice) while this is happening a family death and funeral, (in a family that is already strained to max) then I return home to my youngest (2yrs) sick with Gastro Enteritis which quickly spread through the whole five of us...Yeah I’m still sane just had to check there for a moment. Stay with me this is going somewhere ! Well during that month my sex life has been well to put it in a lady like manner “shit” my internet access during this month has been little to non existent (Bad for a net junkie) My contact with people has been less than stimulating all my ‘people’ dealings have been sick or related to me, I was stressed and to put it in a nut shell Horny upon returning to my beloved internet connection I became disheartened a few site I frequented had gone to pay, yet again eaten up by the greed of the ever ending fast buck craze. I had uploaded the revamped collarncuffs site pages to find goggle still hated me and my literate computer skills. I was on a downer, and think, I myself might have been on the verge of Depression which was a new feeling for me balancing on the edge I’m always such a happy person although a little frayed and tired around the edges My online sub and real time partner were begging for attention and here was me spinning out of control. Not a good state of being for a Domme LOL still with me? ..Good. this is going somewhere...well all of the months happenings where gone and forgotten by doing to quiz's I got my net fix but it wasn't till I went to delete them that I had my revelation stress wasn't causing my (almost) depression ignoring my Femdom parts was the cause I started to think of the times I’ve had to ‘ignore “ my Femdom side and the realization hit. Although I have rarely ignored my fetish they were the worst times in my life. Made me wonder how many ‘people’ ignore their fetish ? it has made me more determined to make the site work ,so it did have an up side. Deep down I have always known this but never really let my fetish control me just accepted it as in ingrained part of me. Maybe its because I’m reaching my ‘so called’ sexual peak (approaching 40) that this ‘need’ is wanting to feast on a more frequent time span , who knows just goes to show you think you know yourself only to be surprised. I promise no more quiz’s and need you to promise me if you see them here on my Blog...send me a message and tell me to ‘go get fucked’ LOL

Wednesday, June 7, 2006

Test you Fetish knowledge

Last one i promise LOL... help I think i have an addiction to quiz's
Have a go.. this one had me baffled on a few questions

Test your fetish knowledge..quiz!!!
my results







You scored 78% for basic knowledge, 67% for advanced knowledge, 70% for perverted knowledge and 11% for obscure knowledge
Well assuming I made the questions well and you didn't simply guess well, we should now know how much you've learn't from sex columns, the internet and friends and family about fetishes and sex, at least compared to me and other takers in a statistically crappy test since I did it off the top of my head, but I tried, I swear...







My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:



















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You scored higher than 68% on Basic





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You scored higher than 36% on Advanced





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You scored higher than 88% on Perverse





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You scored higher than 7% on Obscure
Link: The Fetish Knowledge Test written by Dunatis2000 on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

More like me LOL








You are 69% dominant!
Dominance is a personality trait that all of us have to some degree. Some people are just happier when they are the ones in control and they enjoy knowing people are following their lead.

Others enjoy being guided, and enjoy letting others take charge. In a sexual/relationship context Dominants love the power they get from having a partner trust them enough to submit to their their will, and love using that power to please their partner, perhaps in ways their partner never expects.

Submissive and dominant personality traits are part of everyone's natural make-up. You may be very submissive in the workplace or in being the head of your family, and yet still be dominant when it comes to relationship or sexual matters.

If you scored very low you may want to take my test on submission, and may have already explored BDSM as a healthy outlet for your need to control and direct others.

You can find out more about this topic at my site.



This test tracked 1 variable. How the score compared to the other people's:










Higher than 79% on Dominance


Link: The Are You A Born Dominant? Test written by subthoughts on Ok Cupid

A little more fun








You are 12% Submissive!
Submissive and dominant personality traits are part of everyone's natural make-up. You may be very dominant in the workplace or in being the head of your family, and yet still be submissive when it comes to relationship or sexual matters.

If you scored high you may want to look into BDSM as a healthy outlet for your need to serve and obey. If you scored very high it's likely you have already done so.

If you scored very low you may want to take my test on dominance, and may have already explored BDSM as a healthy outlet for your need to control and direct others.

You can find out more about this topic at my site.



This test tracked 1 variable. How the score compared to the other people's:










Higher than 7% on Submissive


Link: The Are You A Born Submissive Test written by subthoughts on Ok Cupid

Boredom not good for me !!!

LOL OK you got ..I was bored but it filled an hour..and you cant say i didn't post..every one needs something a Little light hearted every now and again
You Are Bad Girl Sexy

Girl, you are nothing but trouble. And that's hot.
You've got the classic bad girl sexiness mojo going on.
And your badass attitude makes men fear you - and crave you.
Don't give into people who say to tone it down. You're perfect as is.
Your Personality Profile

You are dignified, spiritual, and wise.
Always unsatisfied, you constantly try to better yourself.
You are also a seeker of knowledge and often buried in books.

You tend to be philosophical, looking for the big picture in life.
You dream of inner peace for yourself, your friends, and the world.
A good friend, you always give of yourself first.



Your Seduction Style: The Charismatic



You're beyond seductive, you're downright magnetic!

You life live and approach seduction on a grand scale.

You have an inner self confidence and energy that most people lack

It's these talents that make you seem extraordinary - and you truly are!

You Are Seductive Flirt

Smoldering hot, you don't really flirt. You seduce.
For you, flirting is just foreplay.
You don't flirt unless it's going somewhere.
You have one goal in mind when you flirt... And you usually get it!
You Are Seductive Flirt

Smoldering hot, you don't really flirt. You seduce.
For you, flirting is just foreplay.
You don't flirt unless it's going somewhere.
You have one goal in mind when you flirt... And you usually get it!
Your Personality Is

Idealist (NF)


You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.
You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.

You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.
Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.

You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.
Truth and authenticity matters in your friendships.

In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.

At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.

With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.

As far as your looks go, you've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.

On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours.
Your Personality Is

Idealist (NF)


You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.
You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.

You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.
Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.

You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.
Truth and authenticity matters in your friendships.

In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.

At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.

With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.

As far as your looks go, you've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.

On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours.
You Will Die at Age 76

You're pretty average when it comes to how you live...
And how you'll die as well.
You Will Die at Age 76

You're pretty average when it comes to how you live...
And how you'll die as well.