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Dominant Damsels Birthday

Born on April 22, 1923, in Nashville, Tennessee

With locks as dark as midnight and a smile as bright as day, Bettie Page was much more than a beautiful pinup model, she was simply the best. A legend as much today as during her modeling days, every facet of Bettie's life and personality captures the interest and devotion of the thousands of fans that followed her career until the day of her mysterious disappearance.

Bettie's numerous contradictions undoubtedly added to her charismatic personality. Nice and naughty, shy and daring, simple and exotic, Bettie shone with a freshness never before seen in the modeling industry. Without elaborate props, costumes, or set-dressings, Bettie produced some of the most beautiful shots to ever grace the covers of hundreds of magazines. Bettie's smoothly tanned skin, deep blue eyes and coal-black hair with her trademark bangs, were enough inspiration to spark the imagination of even the least experienced photographers. Her "girl next door" look and innocent smile only complemented that explosive combination of features.

Through the 1980s and the 1990s, Bettie Page re-surged as a modeling icon. The media, intrigued by her mysterious disappearance launched a countrywide search for Bettie. Comic books soon featured characters that resembled Bettie, contemporary artists such as Olivia, Dave Stevens, and Robert Blue immortalized their idol with their powerful images. Today, Bettie is enjoying her private life with her family.

Bettie's undeniable influence is present still today in fashion, films, and magazines just to name a few. The dark-haired girl from Nashville has become a living legend, a modern icon, a symbol of beauty and femininity that transcends ordinary standards. In the heart of her adoring fans, Bettie will forever remain the queen of pinup.




for more Betty

Tag I'm it

Ohhh crap I've been tagged





As Saratoga wrote in this post, the rules of the game are:



-Write your own six word memoir

-Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like

-Link to the person that tagged you in your post

-Tag five more Blogs with links

-And don’t forget to leave a comment on the tagged Blogs with an invitation to play



Saratoga wrote the below

For quite some time, I suppose the salient characteristic of my approach to life

is to explore new intellectual, emotional and/or personal terrain while

leaving behind things which are no longer useful or necessary. A graduate

school friend once remarked on my ability to continually change and reshape

myself according to my current needs and planned explorations.

Thus, like Nina, describing what I consider to be a hallmark of my life is also pretty

easy. The concept was instantly clear- it just took a little effort to get the exact wording right.

My six-word memoir:



Pushing new frontiers without unnecessary baggage.



Now that I've had my fun, I

tag Lenora, Milliscent, Bonnie, MsSnS and MsCatwoman to play.

I hate being tagged but seeing it’s Saratoga I'll give it ago.



Ever Moving Forward Never Looking Back







Forever:

because I know I’ve meet my soul mate for forever.



Moving:

I never stop moving. Moving either as in movement sake or moving house is always ever present on my mind. Riding moving with the road.





Forward:

I love the direction my life has taken. When I was in my early 20’s I never imagined life could take me where it has. I still have many more years and wonderful adventures and travels planed. Standing still you forget to learn. Still to me means stagnating.





Never:

I have this list of ‘Never’

never do ‘this’ or ‘that‘, this year I decided I decided to increase moving, better the forward directions I’m taking and turn some of those never do’s into must conquer and do’s and add to my never have to conquer again list





Looking:

I’m always looking for new ways, new adventures, new toys, new skills. I always tell my boys you never know what you’ll find unless you looking around you. Stop looking and things pass you by.





Back:

a place from back there that’s gone. A person from back there that’s gone. A family from back there that’s gone. A past that shaped me into a person Forever Moving Forward Never Looking Back.

I’ve picked this picture because it’s my new toy, it sort of links my past to my present plus give me ‘movement’ I grew up on the right side of tracks but choose to hang out on the other side. My life was full of bikes, subbiebikers, and misadventures. I seek adrenaline and they gave it too me. As I’ve aged this part of me kept returning…the bikers are long gone now but that addiction remains. I guess no matter how much we change and grow over the years something’s of our past never do. Hey at least now I can wear more leathers ;-)



I’m choosing not tag five, as reading back through most of the bloggers have already been tagged LOL

Show some love..please :)

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Please help us by taking a moment to fill out this survey even if you have not been a victim of discrimination or violence. We are tracking demographics of our community and we also need to know the types of crimes, discrimination, harassment and abuses of authority that occur based on sexual expression or the perceived association with BDSM-Leather-Fetish groups. This is an anonymous survey being distributed to the BDSM-Leather-Fetish communities throughout the world. We do not ask for your name, address or any other identifying information and all responses made on this website are fully encrypted. Any questions that require a response are marked with an asterisk. You may contact the authors of this survey by emailing surveybdsm@gmail.com, or by writing to us at: Survey of Violence and Discrimination, 875 Sixth Avenue Suite 1705, New York, NY 10001.Thank you for helping us raise the level of awareness of this important issue to our community. By completing this survey you are not only helping us to better understand ourselves, but you are helping in the fight for sexual freedom and sexual equality for all sexual minorities.

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In honour of amore competition

Valentine's Day, a holiday honouring love and lovers, is celebrated on February 14th.

In the spirit of the holiday, we invite you to enter a little celebration

You can have the chance to win:

Grrl toyz pink play heart shaped paddle Spank your playmate into submission, demand control with this 12” by 3” studded paddle with wrist cord. Triple heart raised pattern is guaranteed to leave an impression. Also included in this prize pack Pink beaded nipple clamps by Spartacus Slim sleek and lovely, decorative (pic does not do justice) nipple clamps to adorn the body while creating a pleasurable sensation with out the weight of heavier clamps ,it’s your choice-adjustable for light pressure, or full strength intensity, rubber tipped for comfort and confident grip. Total prize value: $50

In honour of ‘Amore’

Being your slave what should I do but tend Upon the hours,

and times of your desire?

I have no precious time at all to spend;

Nor services to do, till you require.

Nor dare I chide the world without end hour,

Whilst I, my sovereign,

watch the clock for you,

Nor think the bitterness of absence sour,

When you have bid your servant once adieu;

Nor dare I question with my jealous thought Where you may be,

or your affairs suppose,

But, like a sad slave,

stay and think of nought Save, where you are,

how happy you make those.

So true a fool is love,

that in your will,

Though you do anything,

he thinks no ill.

~William shakspeare~ Sonnet 57

To enter the competition all you have to is write a poem/ ode/ or love letter.

The letter/ode/poem can be to you significant other or the partner of dreams, or in the true spirit of Valentines “to your secret Valentine” Submit your “In honour of Amore” entry to our thread on Collarncuffs.com's forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.

rules and conditions posted at collar N cuffs Forum.

"Serving Mistress contest results"

I was recently a judge in another of Mistress 160's brilliant competitions held at MyDungeonSpacein the forced femme group. Many thanks to Ms160 for allowing me to judge, and for all her hard work.

Here are the contest results taken from directly from Mistress160abode All permissions granted to republish)

"Serving Mistress Contest" - Results

poppet - winning photo

Here are the results of my Serving Mistress contest, open to all members of my Forced Fem group at MyDungeonSpace. Many thanks again to judges (Miss Bonnie, Mistress Tich and Just Miss) and contestants!

JUDGES' FINAL REPORT

Each contestant was very special for two reasons. Firstly, none of them had competed in a contest like this before. Ms160 and the judges are very aware of the courage required to go public in a contest like this - especially without a Mistress / partner, and all contestants are to be highly commended for taking such a giant leap outside their comfort zones. The judges hope this experience has been a positive one and that they will return for future events!

Secondly, the judges applaud the high quality of the photo entries. Contestants without owners had to juggle self timing cameras while holding poses, but still did a terrific job. As did Mistress Amor, who took poppet's stunning pix. MzTich summed up the views of all the judges re Mistress Amor when she wrote "Congrats also to [poppet's] Mistress, his pics were great!"

The judges were also very impressed with how the contest theme of service was interpreted. Mistress 160 had purposely introduced a more complex theme into the "Serving Mistress" contest as a challenge to contestants, who were advised in the contest announcement post that more than simply submitting photos of themselves standing in a pretty costume was required. The result, observed Ms160 during judging was "well above the standard I expected ...some really extraordinary statements on D/s service have been submitted, which is really wonderful because it truly brings alive the contest theme of service".

MizTich noted "there [were] hard decisions ... all the contestants did a great job ... I love how each had different thoughts on "serving his Mistress"... Some very multi-faceted subs!" while Miss Bonnie concluded "the contestants all did amazingly well, and should all be very proud of their efforts. One winner is never enough for Ms160’s contests".

True enough! So let's get to the results (in no particular order):

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
BEST ASS + LEGS AWARD

smoothbikini
(pics 1, 2 + 3)

"If I’m not mistaken he has longer
legs than me and I’m all legs!!"
(Miss Bonnie)

The judges couldn't resist creating this award after reviewing the photos.

But who should win it?! MzTich loved saucy's "patterned hose", while Ms160 and Miss Bonnie adored poppet's legs in their perfectly turned out lace up stockings and scarlet slippers, and his cheeky raised skirt showing his pretty panties. But when it came to best legs and ass in the contest one contestant stood out in the judges' minds...

In pic 1 smoothbikini poses coltishly and a tad precariously in fishnets and high heels, offering his Mistress:

"a bottle of her favorite vintage red wine with the softest bouquet to help her relax from the stress of running this contest. (one must possess a certain amount of female intuition to recognize the times when these gestures will be most appreciated. hopefully they will never go unrewarded)".

Of course not! "A romantic gesture is nice and considerate", JustMiss observed, "but having someone so eager to please to play with trumps all!". "Oh, look, how sweet, he's seriously sucking up the judges", laughed Ms 160, while MzTich wondered "is that a 'demure' look he's giving his Mistress as he presents her wine?"!

In this general award category the judges took all three of smoothbikini's pix into account. "Smoothbikini has done pretty well", continued Ms160: "He doesn't say anything in his notes about how he assembled the outfit, but its not bad". MzTich agreed: "I have to say for putting his outfit together by himself smoothbikini did well. I like his interpetation of how he'd serve his Mistress, as not all subs are 'service oriented'". "A great entry", noted Miss Bonnie: "He had the classic ‘black’ that’s normally associated with maid or service. ... I get the impression he tried very hard with what he had at hand, not many submissives have a maid outfit, so he achieved a very close facsimile, for fitting in with the contest theme of service". "The progression of [his photos] brought a smile to my face", wrote JustMiss.

And as for the attributes that won him this price, MzTich (who was very enamored of smoothbikini's footwear) noted: "because of his heels defining his calfs I'd have to say smoothbikini has some very nice leg". And the ass (seen in pic 2, see below)? Very tasty, said Ms160. MzTich agreed: "smoothbikini's has a nice one, hmmm what I could do with that cute ass...". The final word definitely goes to Miss Bonnie:

"smoothbikini is hands down winner for best ass and legs LOL I went to sleep after the main judging night thinking about that wine bottle and ass LOL If I’m not mistaken he has longer legs than me and I’m all legs!!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
BEST LINGERIE WASHER

saucy
(pic 2)


"Saucy is folding those panties with
so much devotion and love"
(Ms160)

The judges created this award category after observing that two contestants entered photos exploring this theme: poppet's pic 2 and saucy's pic 2.

Poppet's pic 2 (which is discussed in detail in another award post) was "absolutely delightful ... everything matches, not only the shoes, panties and his lace up ribbons are red, but so is the washing line." (Ms160). All the judges adored the detail the photo contained, and poppet's lovely accessories (actually that should probably read Mistress Amor's lovely accessories as poppet is one of them).

However, after much discussion the judges choose saucy's pic 2. Saucy titled the image "Delicate washing" and wrote of it:

"This one means a lot to me personally. i take great pride in hand washing, hanging and maticulously folding delecates such as Mistress' panties. Then carefully placing them neatly in piles of matching colors as Mistress prefers and presenting them for Her inspection before tucking them away in Her dresser"

"This one means a lot to me, too", wrote Ms160:

"sol does my lingerie washing, this photo brings back wonderful memories that catch my heart. Saucy is folding those panties with so much devotion and love, I wish I could see his face, but I don't need to because I'm sure it would contain pride at a job perfectly done"

MzTich agreed: "there is something to be said in pic #2 for the care he bestows on Her lingerie, so lovingly. His pics were well lit and clear. I think he did very well by taking pics by himself. Great job!". " I absolutely loved the theme that was brought about in these pictures", wrote JustMiss, while for Miss Bonnie:

"pic 2 was my personal favourite, I liked the neat piles, colors matched, I’m a bitch if my panties are in a bundle LOL so it appealed to me. Nothing worse than getting ready to go out and not being able to find the colour or pair your looking for !!!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
"THE SEXY, SASSY AND SLUTTY AWARD"

poppet
(pics 1, 2 + 3)


"He deserves this award. He covered all aspects
from sexy to slutty in three images!"
(Miss Bonnie)

The judges created this award inspired by saucy, who used the term to describe both his outfit and the state of mind that accompanied it:

"i chose this particular uniform to wear today because it is my favorite. it's sexy, sassy, and it's slutty. it's so befitting of a slut such as myself. i always feel special when Mistress allows me to wear it, i know it means that She thinks i've been good and She wishes to reward me for my behavior. When i wear it i can think of nothing more than serving and pleasing Her"

And indeed this perfectly described saucy's entries. The problem for the judges was that all three entrants were serious competitors for this title! Apart from saucy's seriously sassy look there was smoothbikini, looking a complete and utter tart as he slurps on a dildo in pic 3, undergoing:

"dildo training with Mistress. i feel as a submissive i need to offer my surrender as much physically as emotionally and the prospect of being 'taken' and penetrated by my dominant dildo-wielding Mistress can and will alter my perspective and disposition in a female-positive manner"

What a choice...

After hard debate, however, the judges choose to give this award to poppet for his pic 2., of which poppet wrote:

"poppet in a slightly cheeky pose whilst hanging out Owners freshly washed underwear to dry. poppet is wearing his maid’s outfit with black stockings with a red ribbon up the seam, his fluffy red slippers and matching black and red lace panties. The picture captures poppet’s true slutty nature in that he is flashing his bottom to the camera"

"Slightly cheeky??" queried Ms 160:"seriously, poppet's pic 2 is adorable. Everything matches, not only the shoes, panties and his lace up ribbons are red, but so is the washing line. It definitely shows his tarty cheeky (excuse the pun) side". "Kudos on the very well presented maids uniform. Very coordinated ... His sassy 2nd one is so cute, how could a Mistress resist him?", wrote MzTich, while JustMiss pointed out:

"aside from the neat appearance of the uniform and the poses that were chosen for each scene, there was one other detail that I noticed that stood out to me: each expression seemed perfectly fitting for the picture being taken".

Again, the final judging comment goes to Miss Bonnie:

" I can hear all the Mistress’ reading this thread (afterwards) sighing in want! Everything matched, and in total made for some very bright and vibrant pictures ... Perfect. ... Such a slut ! He deserves this award. He covered all aspects from Sexy to slutty in three images! Quite the achievement!"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST :
MOST INNOVATIVE "ENTRY"

smoothbikini
(pic 2)


"I went to sleep after the main judging night
thinking about that wine bottle and ass"
(Miss Bonnie)

This award was created entirely with smoothbikini in mind. While the judges enjoyed all smoothbikini's pix, we have to admit our favorite was pic 2, of which smoothbikini wrote:

" unfortunately [after presenting his Mistress in pic 1 with another bottle] Mistress preferred a white wine on this occassion over the red i had choosen!!!! how could i be so unfeeling as to not realize this! for punishment Mistress had me slowly lower myself completely down onto the red wine bottle to appease her for my mistake"

The photo shows smoothbikini from the rear, crouching over the wine bottle, framed by an oval mirror. "The ‘mirror’ pic would be my over all favourite of smooth’s", wrote Miss Bonnie: "great imagery, and very arty in it’s appearance ... [the award Ms160 suggests is] perfect!".

"He's tried hard with his themes", noted Ms160: "serving wine in the first pic, anally inserting it in the second, sucking a dildo in the third. These are definitely serving Mistress themes from a male mind, but that makes them no less fun". JustMiss agreed: "from the gesture to the insertion of the wine bottle to making good use of his mouth, I think that he shows all of this well. I did especially love the second picture, where the wine bottle was being put to better use". "Hmmm what I could do with that cute ass", sighed MzTich.

After close study of the photo, the judges asked smoothbikini exactly how much of the bottle he inserted:

smoothbikini: the whole bottle, i couldn't disappoint Mistress, could i???

Ms160: Are you seriously telling us you inserted that WHOLE bottle???? (lying to judges has a very nasty penalty). So next question: did you drink the contents before or after, lol?!

smoothbikini: i could never lie to Mistress!!! i have had much experience in making love in my manpussy - nothing feels quite as nice... and i most certainly will drink the wine!

How could we not reward such efforts, lol?! The final judges' comment again goes to Miss Bonnie: " I went to sleep after the main judging night thinking about that wine bottle and ass ... hmmm wonders what else sb can do with an empty wine bottle LOL"

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
ATTENTION TO DETAIL AWARD

saucy
(pic 1)


"Great job! That he can envision through fantasy
how it would be, speaks volumes as to
how he would serve a Mistress"
(MzTich)

This is a very important award, that reveals the underlying strengths of a sub willing to serve his Mistress to the very best of his ability. Attention to detail is absolutely necessary, and makes the difference between a sub at play, and a dedicated sub committed to his Mistress' comfort.

All three contestants showed strongly in this category, and the judges would especially like to commend poppet and Mistress Amor, who's imagery has every judge grinding their teeth in jealousy. However, the judges were particularly impressed by Saucy's over all service theme, especially his evocative and beautifully written description in regard to getting dressed for his Mistress, which accompanied pic 1, which saucy titled "Ready to serve":

"Getting ready to serve my Mistress is always the first act of my day. i start by applying my makeup. A touch of dark shadow on my lower eyelids, a little less light shadow on my upper eyelids. Some mascara, a dust of blush, and a kiss of light pink lipstick. Not too much, not too little, just enough.

"i finish getting ready by slipping into my uniform, a pair of fishnets, and a tight thong. i then tie my apron on. The tails must be even, and loops of matching size, just how Mistress likes. i slide my feet into a pair of heels. Lastly i lock the small padlocks in place knowing that Mistress won't free me from them until bedtime.

"i'm now ready to present myself to Mistress. Standing as She taught me, with my eyes lowered i await Her approval before i go about my duties for the day".

"When it came to this set of pictures", commented JustMiss: "I absolutely loved the theme that was brought about ... The pictures were very clear and I had no doubt about what was going on in the progression of the sequence". Miss Bonnie:

"adored the maids outfit theme ... service is something on line or unowned submissives don’t get to participate in, so this competition was a great opportunity for all. Saucy showed all sides of the outfit in clear well lit pics, a very important factor and here we can see how he's gone ahead and done that".

Ms160 agreed:

"saucy's photos are technically good (well lit, nicely laid out etc). He's created a theme, that while a fantasy (as he is not owned at present) is completely believable. He keeps his themes and tasks simple and effective (preparation / service / punishment with a service theme) which perfectly represent the contest's theme or service.... You can see saucy's French Maid's outfit clearly. He also shaved his legs, so good attention to detail".

JustMiss picked up similar points:

"kudos for the leg shaving as well, as that is something I personally enjoy. saucy's first picture was what impressed me the most, as paying attention to details is a very important factor and here we can see how he's gone ahead and done that"

For Mistress Tich, saucy's first pic was a favorite:

"I loved his maid's uniform and so meticulous getting ready ... . Great job! That he can envision through fantasy how it would be, speaks volumes as to how he would serve a Mistress"

And showing that in a photograph", concluded Ms160: "is what this contest was all about".

SERVING MISTRESS CONTEST:
WINNER

poppet and Mistress Amor
(pic 3)


"I’m so jealous, What Domme wouldn’t want
a sassy maid and queening stool at her service"
(Miss Bonnie)

"Oh poppet", wrote Miss Bonnie "(can I clone you) I adore your pics ... I can hear all the Mistress’ reading this thread (afterwards) sighing in want! ".

"Poppet's outfits and accessories are fabulous, sol would be green with envy", wrote Ms160: "I love poppet's first photo, presenting the wine on his knees. This is the kind of sub a Mistress dreams of. His French Maid's outfit is very well presented (clean / ironed), nice and shiny lol, love those polyester fabrics! ".

"Everything matched, and in total made for some very bright and vibrant pictures", agreed Miss Bonnie. "Congrats also to his Mistress, his pics were great! ... how could a Mistress resist him?", said MzT, while JustMiss noted "each of these pictures had something to say to me personally. .. each picture seemed very fluid, very familiar, as though I was simply catching a glimpse into the everyday life of poppet".

Which of course we were. Which is what made this particular photo so striking to the judges. Poppet wrote, to accompany it:

"poppet positions himself on his owners queening stool ready to serve his Owner in a most intimate fashion. poppet is wearing his white stockings with a bow on the heels and matching suspenders and panties. poppet has selected shoes that coordinate with his outfit. poppets nipples are pre-clamped for his Owners amusement. Not visible is poppet’s CB-3000 chastity device which poppet is expected to wear at all times"

The judges really enjoyed all the entries in the contest, and greatly appreciated the effort each contestant had taken. "I love how each [contestant] had different thoughts on "serving his Mistress" ... some very multi-faceted subs!", concluded MzTich, but: " [Re] poppet and his Queening stool, a sub couldn't get much more intimate with his Mistress then in this fashion"

What Ms160 found extraordinary about the image was that:

"apart from the Maid outfit and the great shoes lol, it's rare for a sub to show himself with a queening stool. Considering this is a contest about how best to serve your Mistress I find the intimacy of the queening stool very evocative and powerful. This is the kind of image that breaks through Feminization stereotypes. I think MistressAmor and poppet have done a great job ...

"now excuse me, I have to go find sol and request he finish making the half completed queening stool in the spare room...."

Miss Bonnie agreed:

"Poppet’s entry was a nice surprise, as Ms 160 mentioned it breaks from the stereo typical images that are normally made to appeal to men in mass media. Poppet's picture was aimed at pleasing women ... it was a refreshing change. Poppet's image showed the true nature of service"

And again, that is what this contest was truly all about.

The judges are sincerely delighted to announce poppet - and of course the ever talented and much envied Mistress Amor - as winners of the 2007 Serving Mistress Contest.

Many thanks to:

Miss Bonnie, Mistress Tich and JustMiss
and our contestants and FF group members

Photos:
courtesy MistressAmor, poppet,
saucy and smoothbikini